Penelope Hegseth sent the email to her son in 2018 as he was in the middle of a divorce from his wife, Samantha.

Son,

I have tried to keep quiet about your character and behavior, but after listening to the way you made Samantha feel today, I cannot stay silent. And as a woman and your mother, I feel I must speak out.

You are an abuser of women — that is the ugly truth, and I have no respect for any man that belittles, lies, cheats, sleeps around, and uses women for his own power and ego. You are that man (and have been for years), and as your mother, it pains me and embarrasses me to say that, but it is the sad, sad truth.

I am not a saint, far from it… so don’t throw that in my face, but your abuse over the years to women (dishonesty, sleeping around, betrayal, debasing, belittling) needs to be called out.

Sam is a good mother and a good person (under the circumstances that you created), and I know deep down you know that. For you to try to label her as “unstable” for your own advantage is despicable and abusive. Is there any sense of decency left in you? She did not ask for or deserve any of what has come to her by your hand. Neither did Meredith.

I know you think this is one big competition and that we have taken her side… bunk… we are on the side of good, and that is not you. (Go ahead and call me self-righteous, I don’t care.)

Don’t you dare run to her and cry foul that we shared with us… that’s what babies do. It’s time for someone (I wish it was a strong man) to stand up to your abusive behavior and call it out, especially against women.

We still love you, but we are broken by your behavior and lack of character. I don’t want to write emails like this and never thought I would. If it damages our relationship further, then so be it, but at least I have said my piece. [Redacted]

And yes, we are praying for you (and you don’t deserve to know how we are praying, so skip the snarky reply).

I don’t want an answer to this… I don’t want to debate with you. You twist and abuse everything I say anyway. But… On behalf of all the women (and I know it’s many) you have abused in some way, I say… get some help and take an honest look at yourself…

Mom

  • gibmiser@lemmy.world
    461·
    13 days ago

    DAMN momma! Bitchslapped with love. Honestly made me feel almost bad for the guy - mom sounds like good people and he still ended up a turd.

    • roofTophopper@lemmy.world
      13·
      13 days ago

      Definitely is. Sadly he’s too far gone and will find a way to spin this and suddenly she’s getting attacked off of whatever insane claims he made. People like him won’t try to get better or even defend, they redirect.

    • ButtermilkBiscuit@lemm.eeEnglish
      831·
      13 days ago

      Imagine how big a piece of shit you must be if your own mother writes something like this to you while you’re going through a divorce. The guy must be a an absolute fucking scumbag.

      • quink@lemmy.ml
        37·
        13 days ago

        The guy must be a an absolute fucking scumbag.

        aka the main Trump administration job requirement.

        Sure, it feels wrong to joke about it, but given Trump and a substantial portion of his cabinet has a history of abuse as well, significantly more so than the average population or current administration, it is by no means only a joke.

  • adarza@lemmy.caEnglish
    901·
    13 days ago

    basically did a full 180 when ‘needed’ like a good maga nut republicant.

    @yashar
    Mrs. Hegseth, in a phone interview with The New York Times on Friday, said that she had sent her son an immediate follow-up email at the time apologizing for what she had written. She said she had fired off the original email “in anger, with emotion” at a time when he and his wife were going through a very difficult divorce.In the interview, she defended her son and disavowed the sentiments she had expressed in the initial email about his character and treatment of women. “It is not true. It has never been true,” she said. She added: “I know my son. He is a good father, husband.”

  • Kyrrrr@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    91·
    13 days ago

    This was probably part of his resume to join the rest of Trump’s appointees

  • someguy3@lemmy.world
    241·
    13 days ago

    but after listening to the way you made Samantha feel today

    What happened?

    From the article: Penelope Hegseth sent the email to her son in 2018 as he was in the middle of divorcing his wife, Samantha.

    • Todd Bonzalez@lemm.ee
      11·
      11 days ago

      I need to remember that Lemmy users will upvote people who just repeat what the article says in a different order. Easy karma farming, apparently.